Staying cool under the collar
I think I may be the only one left who isn't completely appalled by poor customer service.
Everywhere I look there are screams of anger and indignation over having been served a glass of Coke rather than Diet Coke after having to wait 45 minutes, or that someone had to refill their own glass of water... none of these things is of importance to me. I mean, sure, it may be mildly annoying, but enough to really go on a steam-shooting-out-the-ears tirade, or to even get angered enough to micro-blog about it later, no. For example, just this weekend, the grandparents were slighted by the employees at Kroger after having forgotten to grab their jug of milk from the checkout counter to take back to the car. The employee was rude about the whole situation, and my Dad insisted that I write a stern letter to the corporation over the treatment of the elderly. That's well and good, but I just don't get overly bothered by the rudeness. Yes, it's unfortunate that it was directed towards family, and yes it's unfortunate that it was rudeness to begin with, but to write a stern letter over spilled milk.... nah.
Perhaps I'm desensitized to rudeness.... no, I really don't think so.... I deplore rudeness to the core, but there are better ways to deal with it than to burden others with the unrighteous goings-on. Life has its little checks and balances. I am a full believer of the 10-cent tip. As a waiting staff, go on and be rude to me. I'll keep smiling, and I'll keep refilling my own glass of water (yes, I've done that many, many times), but in the end, you're working for that untaxable tip. Rudeness at the grocery store? Well, if it's once or twice, let it roll off the shoulders - it isn't that big of a deal. If it's constantly? Shop elsewhere. Simple. Or talk to their superiors; no use in wasting your time trying to convince the employee himself that he's doing life wrong.
It also isn't about 'letting them win,' because really, what are they winning? Nothing at all.
There's plenty of things I get hot under the collar about, but poor service just isn't one of them. Large-scale social injustice. Bigotry. Despair . Hopelessness. Those, to me, are far deeper emotions and events to which to mount the verbal assault and to try to make a difference.
If you have been, the sky's the Ipswich.
Busy last couple of weeks
So, aside from causing shitstorms on Facebook with notes and links, it's been a fairly eventful and busy last couple of weeks.
I heard tell of a local Blues musician playing downtown that sounded pretty good on iTunes, so decided to go to the show. Because I was supposed to meet up with another friend later at the capitol to shoot some pictures, I brought my camera stuff along. Luck would have it (for me, anyway) that the band's camera was full, so I offered to take a few pictures to send them. Fortunately for me, they liked the images, and invited me out as a VIP guest to take pictures at the season-ending KGSR Blues on the Green event at Zilker Park.
It was huge.
Something like 10,000 people came out to listen to Nakia and the Blues Grifters, and the main act, Raul Malo. The pics are up on my flickr, so go check them out if you haven't already. I'm really hoping this can be a spring board of sorts to find some other things I can take photographs of and get paid for. Adding another string to pull is always good. As for the music itself, they really are very good if you're into the soul/jazzy/bluesy sound, which they make in abundance.
Then I also heard about the second annual Cupcake Smackdown at The Domain, and decided that cupcakes and zombies were too good to pass up, so went there on Saturday. It was indeed epic. I skipped breakfast and made the mistake of getting a Hillcountry Cupcake. I was buzzing for a good hour, but got some good photos of the zombies and cupcake cannons that were used to fight the invasion. Pics are also up.
My problem with the Tea Party
Ok, this cheeses me off. A rant must be had.
The Tea Party is a bunch of shit. It really is. They claim to care only about removing the government, lowering taxes, and letting the market fend for itself, but a quick glance at their official website clearly shows that isn't the case. The core values, according to their website, are "Fiscal Responsibility, Constitutionally Limited Government, and Free Markets," which are all fine. I agree with all three of those (to a degree). However, a quick glance at their blog section, and it's abundantly clear, they have an agenda that stretches far from those three items.
For example, there is an article linked entitled "The Homosexual Agenda Could [sic] Care Less About Marriage." Herein lies the problem. Social mommy-coddling is not stated in the core values. Tea Partiers claim not to be bigots, yet they put a bigoted story on the website. Your website represents you as a whole - not individuals. So by putting a story that says, and I quote, "Homosexual activists are attempting to forcibly impose their views of morality and decency, and their definition of marriage, on American society. They want to foist their behavior on society, to have the homosexual lifestyle acknowledged and accepted as legitimate," it clearly shows that the tea party at least agrees with this line. This goes well beyond the scope of fiscal responsibility, limited government, and free markets, folks.
I understand that many of your members are conservative. I understand many of your members are Christian. Both of those are fine, but don't claim that your movement is there only to ensure a small government that spends wisely, in a market that monitors itself, when you are trying to push religious stances on the law. Believe what you want. Believe in the tea party's core values. Stay within the bounds if you want the 'movement' to seem credible. Do not hide behind the pretense of political correctness ("oh, we're not racist, we like social equality, etc") just to garner votes. Say what you mean, mean what you say. That goes for any party, but for a radical group, it means much more.
They also claim that they can know the original intent of the Constitution, which is the same problem I have with holy texts. You can't. You just can't. The people that wrote it are dead, and you have no idea what they were thinking. You can INTERPRET, but that is not the same as knowing. And by holding the Constitution (in their eyes, not a living document, but rather a hard law) as the highest letter of the land, it just so happens that the first line of the Bill of Rights says "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion," so by placing a story on the website that states "some may be shocked to discover that religion and morality motivates traditional marriage. However, it is clear that religion and Judeo-Christian morality were explicitly and justifiably responsible for most of our laws, customs and social definitions, including those related to marriage," it's more than just a little hypocritical. We don't need that. Your party doesn't need that.
Incidentally, in the news lately, we've heard talk of stopping citizenship to babies born to illegals in the country, despite the Constitution, via 14th amendment, stating quite clearly that they are. The tea party (among others) holds the Constitution to be indivisible.... except where they think it's wrong. Wait, what?
Conservatives and Tea Partiers are an entirely exclusive group. If you don't think like us, you are wrong, and we'll make laws to ensure that our views, and our views alone are enshrined, seems to be the cry. The same can be said for the liberals, sure. If you don't think like us, you are wrong, and we'll make laws to ensure that our views, and our views alone are enshrined, seems to be the cry. However, the difference is that the liberal view is INclusive. The liberal view is that everyone should have the same rights. Everyone should have the same opportunity. Rather than shutting your group out of the system, it's an open door. Naturally, extremism on both sides only ends in failure, so the solution lies somewhere in between, but which viewpoint is the better, more noble one? The one that says "I'm, sorry, you don't think or act like me, therefore you cannot have the same opportunities as me," or the one that says "You don't think or act like me, but have a go at it anyway." It's a thin line that is tread, but one that seems so obvious to me that it leaves me trembling and speechless that it even crosses the mind to think unequivocally "no" rather than "why not?"
Some say 'think before you speak.' How about 'think before you stomp on other people'?
Recipe: Chicken sausage stuffed peppers
A friend of mine tweeted the other day that he was making stuffed peppers for dinner, and attached a pic, which got me slightly jealous with how good they looked, so I decided to attempt some on my own. And they were awesome. Epically awesome. And easy!
Ingredients:
Red bell pepper, split in half and stem removed
Chicken sausage - the spinach and feta cheese variety from Newflower Farmers Market is what I used because it smelled good
Fresh basil
Tomatoes
Cheddar jack cheese, shredded
Salt + Pepper
Olive Oil
1) Fire up the grill, and grill up the sausage
2) Chop up the basil, and mix it in a bowl with the tomatoes which I just sort of mashed up, along with a little bit of cheese
3) Chop up the sausage, ideally back to the raw, crumbly sausage state, and mix it into the bowl of stuff, along with a pinch of kosher salt
4) Spoon in the mix into the cavity of the pepper halves, and top with a bit of black pepper
5) Drizzle a bit of olive oil on top, put it all on some foil, and throw it back on the grill for a few minutes. Done.
Bad, bad me!
Oops. It had been going so well, too.
After a small bit of polenta (which, by the way, is excellent. I always walked past it at the store meaning to try some, but never got around to it until now) after the gym, I was in a rush to head out the door Thursday to get to the Capital Macintosh photography Special Interest Group where they were gonna do a small talk on basic lighting. It was a pretty good talk, incidentally, but not the point. I thought I ate enough, but I hadn't.
Knowing that the fridge had nothing prepared in it, on my drive home, I had a hankering for cajun fries, so come 9pm, I stopped at Five Guys. This is where the first line of the blog comes from. It was late, I was hungry, so my will broke, and I had a burger and fries.
Trying to live healthy despite no job and no real motivation has its challenges, but all in all I've done well so far. I've discovered the pure, unadulterated joy of cooking (along with the pure, unadulterated agony of doing the dishes and pans). The Newflower Farmers Market up the road is becoming a favorite spot of mine to find really good, cheap, fresh vegetation, and in doing so, I'm eating more of it. Shocking, given my history of vegephobia.
I can try to justify the lapse in judgment by honestly going to the gym four days of the week now, but that would be dishonest. I wanted a big, greasy burger, so I got one. This is not to say I am a certified health-nut. Far from it. Rather than count calories, and reading every label on every bit of food I eat, I'm subscribing to the school of thought of just being mindful of what and how much. Sure, it's easier to screw up and take advantage of a system like that, but if you have a lifestyle you're aiming for, you find ways to do it right. As the old cliche states, you're only cheating yourself - and in this case, it actually is true, unlike most of the situations you heard of growing up.
So, on the menu tonight, is a chicken noodle soup made from the stuff I bought at Newflower and Costco. No cans. It may turn out great, and it might not. Thus is the adventure of cooking for one.
As Horace puts it, mens sana in corpore sano. Or as Stephen Fry puts it, mens' sauna offers corporal punishment. Good night.
The Austonian
Originally uploaded by Hsu Box?
I admit it. I really wouldn't say no to living here. Walking around downtown yesterday while waiting for Julia and Nathan to bring their respective kids to the Austin Children's Museum, I was getting the idea of what these developers are trying to do with the 2nd St area. It's very hip and trendy, and that's something I struggle to be, but you know, shamefully kind of want to be deep down.
Fireworks over Austin
Originally uploaded by Hsu Box?
Had a great time downtown listening to the Austin Symphony play some Caravan, Tchaikovsky, et al, and watching the fireworks go boom over the cityscape. You really feel those cannon shots!
iPhone therefore iAm
So. The next great thing from Cupertino has graced the world with its presence. Of course that can only mean the next iTeration of iNamed iProducts.
Yes, that's right. The much-rumored, and much-leaked, and much-previewed iPhone 4.
Sadly, I did not get one. Howmever you look at it, love it or hate it, it is a very cool device and the envy of all non-Google fanboys everywhere... at least, it will be for the next few weeks while they are still hard to find. Like the iPad, the Jobsian camp has yelled its magical revolutionary technology from the top of the mountain, and I, a fan of most things shiny, listened and gazed doe-eyed up hoping that I might get my hands on one. Well, not for a while. After that one November morning camped out for a Wii/PS3 (and not getting one, being the 10th in line, and not the 9th), I've sworn off line camping for products forever. I must admit, had I been invited, I probably would have gone like an idiot to stand in line.
Instead, I get to watch as all the cool kids unboxed and showed off their new phones to the ooohs and ahhhhs that escaped my lips. I have to say, that screen is extraordinary. That alone may be worth the price of admission. My jealousy of friends having the phone is not in sour disposition. Sometimes I surprise myself. It is sheer admiration. I want one, but am for the moment, more than content to juts be gazing in from the outside.
Til next we meet, the Web.
An entirely satisfactory weekend. Oh, hello June.
It seems most people I know had a pretty good Memorial Day weekend, myself included.
Much of it was spent trying to avoid the heat of the sun, because let's face it, it's getting bloomin' hot here in Austin. While the Koens and Knotts went off to Rockport, I decided to spend the weekend here around town, learning how to cook different things with the same four ingredients, and hanging out with friends. Incidentally, those four ingredients are salmon filets, chicken breasts, onions, and mushrooms. Tomatoes and rice are added in, depending on what it is I come up with. They also involve either the toaster oven or the charcoal grill. So far, I've done a basic grilled salmon, basic grilled chicken, salmon on rice, salmon with stir-fried vegetables, chicken tacos (which rock), and combinations hitherto. Seriously, it's hard to make something that tastes BAD with just salmon, chicken, or tuna. It may not taste great, but certainly not bad.
Saturday, we had a small dinner at Steven and Courtney's of BBQ chicken (yum), pasta salad (YUM), and root beer floats (yum). Being nice out, there was much chatting and playing with the dog on the back porch into the early evening. This is what life's about. Good food, good friends, and all that those involve.
Sunday, I started off by going to the weekly flickr meetup at Progress Coffee, where I had a lemonade. This was followed up by a quick trip down to the HOPE Farmers Market, which was a bit empty due to the long weekend. I didn't get anything, but the produce they had there looked pretty good. Bunch of hippies - but of the East Austin variety, so they were 'funky' (in all senses of the word) and tattooed, but hippy in the heart. I walked around East Austin a bit more, taking pictures as I went, because I had an hour to burn before heading up to Hubert and Melissa's for another Memorial Day weekend BBQ.
Monday was even more relaxed. I cleaned up the house a bit, did dishes, ate a strawberry from the garden. I was going to swing by Zilker Park, but they're charging for parking on weekends, so I went down to Butler Park instead to watch the end of the CapTex Triathlon.
I've finally regimented my gym visits (to a solid three days a week), in the hopes that the structure will help. We'll see how that goes. I've been weighing in at about 198 the last few times, so maybe that's encouraging. Until next time.



